This week, I came across a story that resonated deeply with me, and my values in education, particularly amidst discussions of 'punishment' and 'retribution'—not just in education but in life. If we’re not careful, these latter concepts can easily become our default. It's disheartening to see how often punishment overshadows our primary goal as educators—and as Christians—to nurture and support each child. While there are times when sanctions are necessary (believe me, I use them!), I wanted to share a story that highlights the importance of compassion, education and teamwork in shaping young lives. It is this compassion, enriched by the greatest Christian value of all—forgiveness—that should guide us al - remembering that our actions are never caused by others, but by our choices.
A colleague, Sharon (not her real name), reflected on a child in Reception who arrived with a rather fiery disposition. This little boy, Billy, again, not his real name, came from a loving home, but swearing had become part of his normal vocabulary. Sharon didn’t isolate or suspend him; she knew that Billy needed connection. She worked with him, offering alternative words, and the children celebrated every small success. Over time, Billy flourished in this nurturing environment of a reception classroom, and just recently, Sharon received an email from him—Billy has now graduated with a First-Class Honours Degree and is training to become a teacher himself. Pseudonyms all the way, but an honest, factual story, i promise you.
This story reminds me of our own vision: to ensure every child is determined and confident, knowing God is with them as they learn, care, and share through work, play, and prayer. Ted Lasso’s advice echoes this, “Be a goldfish,” encouraging us to let go of the past and approach each new day with optimism and a clean slate.
Let us continue to create an environment that promotes empathy, understanding, and growth. Together, with mutual trust and respect, we can overcome any challenge. Working with us rather than against us is the key to success. By fostering kindness and collaboration, we ensure that every child not only survives but thrives. That’s my job, and together, we can achieve it.
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